I look back on that year with a lot of regret and a lot of cringing, because as a first year teacher, I was horrible. I only had the one class but I had no idea what I was supposed to be doing. The students in my class were of such a random range of abilities that I had no idea how to bridge the gap between those who couldn't and wouldn't write and those for whom writing was easy but were bored with what was happening in class. Every single day was a new adventure of dread, where I walked in trying to figure out how I was going to get this done.
There is one memory, however that stands out, and it is the memory towards the end of the year. I think the month must have been around April, and we were working on the final unit of studying ourselves. I wanted to have a class potluck and have kids bring different foods from their family's files of specialties. One student, (whose name I will NEVER forget) stood up and said, "I ain't bringing nothing to this stupid potluck." Immediately I got up and said that she needed to sit down and be respectful or leave.
Another student, (whose name I will also NEVER forget) stood up and got angry and, "If you aren't bringing anything, you sure as hell aren't eating my food." I quickly shushed her and asked the first girl SB to leave the classroom and go talk to the dean.
SB got up to leave and I helped guide her outside and as I was shutting the door, she suddenly turned with fire in her eyes and pulled the door back open and reached towards and behind me to grab the other female, KF. Suddenly I was stuck in between the two of them and was dragged out into the corridor. As the two girls began tearing into each other, I somehow (superhuman fearful strength) managed to wiggle my way out and began screaming at the girls to stop. At this point both girls had gotten full fledged into the fight. Several teachers came out into the hall and someone called security but all stood by watching. My students in the classroom gathered at the window and watched the action with apparent glee as the fight was pretty vicious and crazy. I couldn't stand seeing the girls ripping each other apart so I jumped on the back of SB, who proceeded to smash me against a wall so that I would let go. (I did. Because that wall smash HURT despite my layer of fat.) I continued screaming and trying to get in between the two of them to stop the fight.
It took two security guards (burly ones at that) to break them apart and when they were finally separated, there were bald spots on both girls, both girls had lost their bras, neither of them had shirts with any buttons on them and the scratch marks and bleeding were something out of a cat-gone-feral-on-innocent-people photograph. I was shell-shocked as both girls were escorted down to the office and I went into the classroom to try and gather my wits and settle the class.
When the class was over, I was shaking and I broke down in tears in my car. I couldn't imagine what had happened and what had just occurred. My back ached a bit from being smushed into the wall and my thumb had some tenderness from having the doorknob yanked from my hand. Desperate for some normalcy, I decided to go and get a cup of coffee from the Starbucks down the hill. I took inside with me a container of peach yogurt and sat in the corner of the Starbucks eating my peach yogurt and staring at a cup of coffee.
Peach yogurt always reminds me of this event and I still have to smile at my foolishness. I'm not sure what made me try and break the girls apart, but I know that I wouldn't have been happy being one of those who stood by and watched. I had to do something and so even if it was a bit foolish, I'm not sorry I got involved. My entire year of teaching is something else entirely, but the moment of getting involved, I'm not sorry.
This peach yogurt is simple to make and delicious to enjoy. It does have that tartness from the yogurt but it is fat free and totally delicious and a treat. It's such a lovely treat that it even sweetens a tough memory.
Honey Peach Frozen Yogurt
Makes about 1 quart
Ingredients
3 ripe peaches, peeled and cut into chunks. (about 3 cups of cut fruit and you can use a mix of white and yellow)
¼ cup honey
2 ½ cups Fage Greek yogurt
Method
With a blender or a hand blender, puree peaches. Add, honey and yogurt and puree more.. Pour contents into ice cream maker and turn on for 25 to 30 minutes, until mixture is stiff and bunching into the blades.
Remove all frozen yogurt from ice cream maker and store it in another container. Freeze for an additional 2 hours. Serve.
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16 comments:
Looks SO good - but how's the texture once it's sitting in the freezer? Every time I try to do frozen yogurt with nonfat, it turns into a tasty brick in the freezer. Or do the honey and the peaches keep it scoopable?
definitely with all homemade ice creams they are best consumed on the day it is made. AFter sitting in the freezer, the best way to get edible texture is to let it out for about 20 minutes to allow it to soften, but it isn't the same as the one that is fresh from the maker or after being in the freezer for 2 hours.
Wow....Joanne, I could not eat another peach Frozen Yogurt without thinking about what took place in this class room. Why these kids do things like that? Do you think it's better to separate kid with different level of ability, but kids learn from each other...... :(
I am sure you were a great teacher, and no women or men can become true grown up without having to hold a job before they are married. I've never had a permanent job before I got married, and I feel as if I am not fully grown. You are great at being a mom to your kids,and a blogger who loves to write stories with food on the side.
I completely agree with the post.
It's understandable if you took a couple of peach yogurts after that experience. They can be quite a relief after such a stressful experience. That surely isn't something you can forget in a fortnight. Don't worry, in time you will know what to do. Teens can get pretty nasty, but you were not to blame.
I've got about 20 lbs of beautiful organic peaches just waiting to be turned into delicious treats. I'll be making this one for sure!
Your story really touched my heart and reminded me about my school life too. Back in my home country we knew to respect teachers like we respect our parents.(And I'm just 23 so it's not so long ago).I mean at least I felt that if I got scolded by a teacher I would never talk back (in my religion respect for a teacher is more than that of a parent) anyway only recently I've heard things becoming weird in schools in my country. And we barely saw boys fighting like animals so girls are a far talk about it (as far as I saw there). I hope things start getting better in schools around here its so upsetting sometimes I'm sure you had a tough time but peach yogurt at the end of the day must have been like a piece of heaven after a rough day of school. You seem like a strong person! I'm gonna definitely try the yogurt but I meant to ask ; I don't have an ice cream maker;any substitute? Thanks :)
What a story! I am a public school teacher in an inner city school, and I know that fights are the worst. Glad you made it out with your hair and bra intact, and I am glad it hasn't ruined peach yogurt for you. Looking forward to making this recipe for my roommates this week!
This is a great post. It's nice to know that something simple as yogurt can make someone's day brighter! So glad that I clicked this post on Pinterest! :D
--Ciara
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Can you make this without an ice cream maker by just pureeing the ingredients and then freezing them?
Wow, this icecream looks wonderful. Can't wait for warmer days-.... Hmm, I can smell the peach. :-)
I don't have an ice cream maker. Can this be done without an ice cream maker? If so how?
Another post similar to this said freeze after pureed and when you take out of freezer, put in blender until you get a smooth consistency
Wow, what a story. Thanks for doing all you do for our youth! :-) And thanks for the yummy recipe for peach frozen yogurt. I think my daughters and I will make some very soon!!
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I'm guessing SB came from a lower income family and they probably didn't have any food to spare for a pot luck or if they did it might be judged as inferior (in her eyes.) When I was growing up, anything to do with money was verboten. I never got to participate in anything that required me to spend money and I had to be hush hush about it too. It was very hard.
The last anonymous comment is correct. From the sounds of things you were in a school in a low income neighborhood. It's amazing that you knew so little about your students' situations by the end of the school year.
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